Arghhhhhhhhhhhhhh bedroom needs tidying?

Hi, 1st about the arguing! You be the bigger person and bite your tongue and dont engage back with her. Just smile and go about your business even if its killing you!!! Eventually she will get that you arent going to keep adding fuel to the fire and hopefully she will quit! As far as tidying...music always gets me goin, and for keeping it clean...just dont let it get messy after you get it clean this time!! Easier said than done!! I know..lol! Hope this helps and good luck!